Kimberly asked me to write about simplicity for a guest post on her blog. We met at Alt in January and she instantly became one of those women I admire and aspire to be like. I get lost in her photographs, wondering what it would be like to care for chickens and garden outdoors or travel far away.

I hadn’t dreamed a post about simplicity would be so difficult to compose, but the farther I ventured into the topic, the more it unraveled, until I found that even our simplest moments are collections of sensations and impressions.

Apparently, part of me is still philosopher.

I haven’t decided entirely how I feel about that. Or what I’ll do with it. But I think it’s a good thing.

Wander this way to read my post…

{Also, Kimberly’s words and Karey’s comment made my heart flutter. Compliments from women I hold in such high esteem? Yes, they made my week.}


Jennifer of Odette New York is bringing myths to life with her jewelry again. This time, the setting is Egypt, where women adorn themselves with patterns on their skin and gold on their wrists and fingers.

The eyes of Ra in particular, whether as bracelet or ring, have a particular power to them, as if they were cast into the future for us to find.

I’ve never worn rings, but Jennifer’s work convinces me that I should change my mind, that maybe a ring has a soul and a story and a life of its own, beginning with its maker and continuing with the first owner. It is passed into the future, the way myths are.

And somewhere along the way, myth and object are bound together.

Yes, this is definitely as jewelry should be.

What’s your favorite piece in the new collection? And does anyone else suddenly have the desire to learn more about henna?

{jewelry and photographs by Odette New York}


Much of what I write is half-fiction, half-truth drawn from scenes I’ve witnessed and experiences I’ve been part of. This story seems no different. Sharing my writing is sometimes a leap of faith and I hope you enjoy this one.

She wanted to capture him, first with her camera and then with her words.  That was the usual sequence.  She had stumbled upon him, perched on a ledge near the museum. Dark hair tumbled in front of his eyes as he sat there writing in a small notebook. His dark blue jeans brown leather jacket and brown boots might have been pulled from a James Dean movie, and they only added to the air of mystery and coolness he possessed.

People like this don’t exist anymore, she thought to herself.

She had been walking home but she stopped and hovered close by. Something deep inside her wanted her to speak with him.

The sun was slipping behind the trees, casting a warm yellow-pink glow onto the white marble monument off in the distance. It was the perfect photo opportunity, and so she positioned herself at the edge of the walkway, facing the sunset, with him in her peripheral vision so she could eventually swing the camera in his direction. The camera started to beep as she took photos: sunset, monument, trees, stranger. One shot, and during it he had straightened and turned so his back was mostly toward her.

Would he notice if she tried to take more photos with the camera aimed in his direction?

She walked off a bit, sat on the first empty wood bench along the gravel pathway, and wrote the scene.

The night’s descent was spilling onto the stretch of green, darkening it, draping the tree branches in its veil. This stranger, this poet she couldn’t pull her mind from was the perfect character. He was the type that inspired novels and movies. She wondered if she was like that, if she could be muse to writers, if the stories of her life were worth preserving. Was who she was big enough to fill the pages of a novel?

She decided she would fill volumes.

{photo and words by me}


I unexpectedly found myself at the Hirshhorn Museum on Friday night. Really, it was a case of stubbornness: I refuse to take public transportation in DC if it’s a nice day and I can walk there instead. So rather than jump on the metro after dinner with my friend, I walked the 4.4 miles home, past the White House, around the Washington Monument, and across the National Mall.

This photo shouldn’t have been taken at all. I was snapping pictures of the sunset and monuments and sky as an excuse to have my camera out and be pointing it in random directions. Really, there was a scene I wanted to capture, one person who I found intensely fascinating.

Later, I kept coming back to this photo: the dark trees, the night descending, the single point of light far in the distance.

Good things sometimes come from being stubborn and I’m always reminded how rich the world is with stories when I wander around my own neighborhood.

Where did you find yourself wandering to this weekend?


I don’t think I’m getting any extra points since I won’t be able to get home this weekend for Mother’s Day, and I’m a little behind on my preparations. I might have forgotten a card. (Oops.) Luckily, the Noreen Fraser Foundation has some great e-cards with lots of famous and awesome people to choose from — like my friend Casey Wilson* and her co-star Adam Pally.

So I’ll be sending my my mom a card and making a donation in her name to help support women’s cancer research. Pretty great combination, no?

You can go send a card for free. Or you can make a donation with it and make your the day even more awesome for your mom — and a lot of other women.

*Casey and I studied acting at NYU together — I even played her brother in an all-female production of As You Like It. She’s an incredibly funny actress and currently on the tv show Happy Endings. If you haven’t seen it yet, check it out.


A few months ago, I drew up my ideal day. It started with some exercise, a good breakfast, and lots of focused morning work. However, I recognized that by the afternoon I would be craving conversation and interaction with other people. At the time, I couldn’t figure out how to remedy that problem until I stumbled on these creative collective spaces.

I imagine such spaces would be the perfect incubators for new ideas, projects, and adventures. In my head, there would be lunches, brainstorming sessions, and people to talk to when I had creative problems I need to work through. I’d also have friends to share the baked goods I make with. If nothing else, the spaces are seriously crush-worthy from a design perspective. Apartment Therapy did a great feature on the creative collective in Atwater Village, and I got to see first hand the one here in Alexandria, VA at The Hive at 1511.

Are you more of a loner when you work, or do you need an office or shared creative space?

{first image from Apartment Therapy, second from The Hive at 1511}


This past Thursday night I found myself tucked away between walls filled with books, munching on Venezuelan food, and chatting with some fantastic people. All Thursday nights should be like that, no?

I arranged to shift my work schedule around a bit so I could drive from DC to NYC and catch the premiere of my friend Kate’s latest production: The Innocents Abroad. An Abbott & West production, The Innocents Abroad is all about food, travel, and culture. The owners of Arepera Guacuco, the Venezuelan restaurant where the first episode was filmed, catered the premiere. I haven’t had much experience with Venezuelan food before, but I was impressed and the next time I’m in NYC, I will be swinging by the restaurant to try their Arepa Mariscada (the dish made in the episode — recipe found here).

Now, sit back and take a peek at what The Innocents Abroad has in store. (I highly recommend watching this when you’re not hungry — otherwise you might find yourself planning a last minute trip to Brooklyn.)

If you want to help make The Innocents Abroad a regular video series, get over to their Kickstarter page and pledge. They’ve got some great packages for backers, including personalized travel itineraries, delicious food, and more.


My friend Amanda gave me this little jar when I was visiting San Diego. I wasn’t quite sure what to do with it at first — it’s not large enough to fit even one cookie comfortably and I decided I needed a wish jar more than anything else. So I’ve been jotting little wishes down on pieces of paper and slipping them in.

Some time ago, I watched this TED video, in which Derek Sivers advises people that they should keep their goals secret if they want to achieve them. Our natural instinct is to tell others, but, Derek says, there is evidence that keeping our goals hush-hush is better.

I’m torn. I’m a big believer that you should share your dreams with the world, as you never know what unexpected connection you will make, who you may find will volunteer to help you achieve your dreams.

Either way, it’s still important to make those wishes and chase after them (whether others know what you’re chasing or not).

Where do you stand? Do you keep your goals a secret or do you share?

P.S. I love helping others find ways to achieve their goals and dreams. If you leave me yours, I’ll try to help you too.


A month ago, Jess of Makeunder My Life wrote this post. Inspired by it, Ez of Creature Comforts has organized a group of bloggers today that are spilling their secrets across the web. Here are a few of mine.

I’m fractured. Between my Present Self and my Future Self, between my Good Self and my Not-So-Good Self. I struggle so often. I’m embarrassed that I’m 31 and just really beginning to figure myself out. (It’s at least good to be on the path.)

I was once in such a bad relationship that I was on anti-anxiety medication the whole time. He stole money from me. He cheated on me and made me believe that I was nothing without him. He lied to me so much that I still don’t know what was real and what wasn’t. And I blamed myself for letting it happen to me, for being so weak, for wanting someone to want me so badly that I would endure emotional abuse for it. (I’m stronger now and would never let that happen again.)

I’ve never been able to give boyfriends nicknames the way other girls do. The idea of calling anyone “baby” (besides a baby) makes my skin crawl a little bit, as does baby talk between adults does. (I wish I knew how to make up cute nicknames.)

I’m worried I will never do anything worthwhile in my life. (But that fear doesn’t stop me from trying to do great things.)

I eat organic and unprocessed foods 99.9% of the time. But I really really like Crunchy Cheetos. And red Swedish Fish. And Cadbury mini eggs. And in the past I’ve eaten entire bags of each in a single sitting. (I’m only learning now that I don’t have to be hard on myself for that.)

Are there things you’re afraid to tell people, either online or in your life?

{image by Ez of Creature Comforts}


On my last trip into New York, I found myself on an after dinner stroll around the Fort Greene area of Brooklyn with Gloria. We had tickets to see Vamps (such a funny movie — and Dan Stevens is in it so I was swooning) but there was time before we need to head to the cinema. As we wound up and down the streets, we discovered this little florist shop called Stem.

It was like a dream. Upon seeing the table topped with flowers through the doorway, I asked if they delivered, and if they could just send the whole shop right down to my apartment in DC.

Apparently, I’m outside of their delivery area. Sadness.

But Stem is one more reason why Brooklyn is my siren, calling me to it over and over again.

The Pacific Ocean and California do the same. As do the mountains and tall trees of the Olympic Peninsula.

DC won’t be forever, but where my next home will be, I’m not entirely sure. I think that may all depend on which siren sings loudest and sweetest.

Are there any places that call to you like that?

{photos by me — Stem is located on 112 S. Oxford St between Lafayette and Fulton in Brooklyn, NY}

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